“The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well,” ~Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Love: what is it? Is it something we strive for? Is it something that eludes us? Is it something we create? I believe it is what we are made of. I believe that the very fabric of God/Universe is Love. I also believe that we are a part of the fabric. When I had my past life regression my wonderful regressionist asked a simple yet powerful question: “What is the message to get out to the world?” The answer was,” Everything is Love and we are given fear as a tool to experience love fully.”

Our physical life experience is about separation from love. We do this so we may experience the true feelings of love, so we may come to know Love on a deeper level, to understand it. A true unconditional love is our highest desire. We want to be loved for who we are and not have limitations set upon us to be able to achieve love.

“All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions. Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else.” ~ Buddha

What are conditions? Conditions are limitations set upon something. “If you don’t get good grades, you’re grounded,” is a conditional statement. It tells the person that they will be a victim of an unloving act if they fail. It puts fear into them and creates a condition of having to perform to have the person’s love. It is a condition. But what is the root of the condition itself? Every parent wants their child to succeed. Some parents are lost in their own fears and see the children as representations of themselves. If the child fails it is a reflection on their parenting. If the child fails they are a bad parent. If the child fails then they themselves are not loved in their perception. They are also afraid of not being loved.

“Every human is the architect of their health or disease.” ~Buddha

Conditional love is a root cause of many ailments. Many people find that if they are ill then they get more attention and thus they feel loved. Many find that if the speak their personal truths they are reprimanded for who they are and so they never speak their truth. What I have found in my years of working with people is those that swallow their truth end up with digestive disorders and elimination organ (ie: kidney, liver, bowels, bladder) disorders. Once the people are broken free of the condition then they heal.

“There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.” ~Denis Waitley

I worked with a child once who was paralyzed. When the child was alone in the room with me he stood up. When the parent was in the room he couldn’t. It was discovered that when the child had the accident, a rather aloof parent suddenly became a great parent and very involved in the child’s life. The child stood with me because he knew I would love him if he did. He couldn’t stand with his parents because he felt loved if he couldn’t stand.  

Our simple belief is what creates our experience. As Buddha says,”What you think you become. You create your world.” Our belief in relationship to love is the root of our experience. If a condition is placed to achieve love we will create a condition to receive it. Is your love unconditional? Was the love of the people in your life unconditional? What aspects of your life are not as you wish and what is the condition that has been placed in your way? Remember Love is a positive sensation and fear a negative one. What condition stops you from achieving the positive sensation? I love you as you are …. No conditions.

“More than anything else, I believe it's our decisions, not the conditions of our lives, that determine our destiny.” ~Anthony Robbins